i just recently broke up with my boyfriend. we're on a long distance relationship and every weekend he visit me to my place. but he got a new job and it become impossible to him to visit me every weekend. we're living in middle east by the way. i became needy, and its stressing him out, that's the main reason he asked for a break. just tomorrow we talked and he asked me to move on. means we will no longer work it out. its hurt a lot. so much pain because i love him a lot and he loves me too. unfortunately he's more focus to achieve something in his life than to continue our relationship. he got a lot of pressure from his family and he wants to show to his father that he is not a failure. i asked him for a last meet up. i just want to say good bye in person and hug and kiss him one last time then i told him that i will vanish in his life forever. but he don't want. he said he don't want me to say goodbye. he still want us to text after all the hard part in his life passes. i don't know whats going on. he asked me to move on but he dont want me to say good bye. and whats the point of still in contact?
Guys please can you give explanation for this?
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maybe he is confused... he loved you but he needs to prove himself first to his parents and at the same time he is also afraid to lose you. But you yourself should move on now for the better. just send him a letter or a voice call about your thoughts and feelings and say goodbye.
Dont be afraid to let go. If two of you are meant to be you will always be together in the end. no matter what will happened.
hope it made you feel better.
good luck to you. 💗0
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