This was my first relationship with anyone so I figured that because I wanted to make her happy, I loved her. Last summer I realized there was more to it than that and, at the end of the day, I didn't need to be in a relationship with her. We broke up and she was devastated. I felt terrible. I didn't know back then what I do now, I convinced myself that she was the one.
We tried being friends for a year but it never worked. She is still going through problems in her life and I was her only friend. Our conversations only caused her more pain, I knew the relationship wasn't going anywhere, and she couldn't get over me as long as we still talked. Due to this, I told her we need to end it off.
I feel like a monster, I just want her to be happy, and I know that it can't happen with me. I need her to move on and I suggested she meet new people. Am I a bad person for doing this?