So, about a month back, I caught my ex cheating on me. I broke things off and told her we probably both needed to move on. I then implemented "No Contact" After three weeks, she texts me out of nowhere:
After this, we talked for a bit, and I told her that maybe we could work things out. She texted me almost everyday for a week or two, then she suddenly disappeared. I tried texting her a few times, only to be blown off. I was able to set a date on the 20th. When I texted her to confirm that she could make it, she replied saying, "Maybe. I have no idea."
I found out tonight that she's seeing another guy, even after we had talked about getting back together. What should I do? Should I confront her about this? I feel like I should, but maybe there's something else.
Most Helpful Girl
You should move on.
There's nothing to confront her about. I mean, it's clear as day that she's not interested in you. Not as anything more than using you as an emotional crutch once in a while, at least. (as demonstrated by how she only seems to be certain about shit when she needs your help, even if it's just by venting. After which she compliments you, then disappears to fuck other guys before popping back up to get her ego boost from yours truly.)5
Most Helpful Guy
I see all these posts about EXes... Why does my ex not like me? This and that about an ex... should we get back together...
An EX means.. in the past. In my life, after any break up, an EX is out of my mind. I move on almost immediately and never think of, try to contact, check up on, etc...
Breakups happen for a reason...
I'm not talking about someone who moved away... I'm talking about relationships that ended due to cheating, abuse, incompatibility and such...
Who CARES about an EX? Who cares about what an EX thinks of them?
Then "breaks"... what's that all about? all this is is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
ALSO... getting back together after a breakup.. or chasing someone to get back together... sorry folks, the same issues are gonna be there.
This "closure" What's that about? No such thing... So what? It's over.. there is your closure.
Move on... where you found one guy/gal, there will always be more.1