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I think every lie is first of all lying to yourself. It can come as a defensive reflex of a past bad experience or something you are not comfortable with. If by talking about it, the other just keeps lying and you can't understand it, there's gonna be loss of trust. And that's a problem. But if you can understand why this defense was raised up, I think it's fine, we all lie a pretty good amount. (On how we feel, what we think, what we do, what we did etc...)
yeah but I have hardly any trust left bc of it
NahI am a better liar and manipulator than any man can ever be. it's all a game.
You're a bad girl ;)
yes everyone does, if she wants to cancel on us to be with the girls she can just tell me, aswell as I got a great s fn party with the guys ofcofc ^,^
yeah but lied about texting other girls and its not the first time I caught him :/
well if he is not saying or doing anything wrong it won't be necessary to lie about it right?
but he was flirting and shit. and he trued to cover it up
then do you think he is loyal to you? if he is he should be able to be honest about those thing in my opinion
could also be he's insecure and needs reassurance and ofc he wouldnd want to show you thay
yeah I don't think he is loyal anymore tbh. but yeah I know he's insecure but that doesn't mean he can text other girls
only if he wouldnd mind you reading it
got a Q back, would it bother you if he would not show conversations with bro's? its not flirting hmnn ^;^?
nah he thought he deleted all the messages so when I went through his phone he didn't expect me to find anything. but obviously I did
I don't tend to go through his phone unless I suspect something. and I always ask first. I never open conversations with his other friends
Yes I hate liars. I think everyone does. And yes its a deal breaking. Being lied to is someone breaking your trust.
I totally agree. thank you so much
You are welcome hun. I hope you get your relationship sorted out!
yeah me too but I think it might be over
Well once the trust is gone so is the relationship. You ha e to remember there is plenty of other guys out there as well. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Yeah it sucks it's over. But its not the end of the world.
yeah true :/ its just gonna hurt you know
Yeah I know hun. I saw what he did. He broke your trust and lies about it multiple times. He will just continental to do that. That pain will last longer then the pain of a breakup with a person who doesn't respect you. Dont waste your precious life on a guy who can't keep his word or respect you.
yeah ur right :/ okay thank you so much. this has actually helped. now I have to go through the pain then I'll finally be happy again
You're welcome hun! And aging it sucks but just rip it off like a band aid and it will get better slowly. Not overnight. You may feel some relief because you won't have to worry about who he's talking to, if he's lying, the same stuff you used to think about. You'll get through this! 😊
awwh thank you so much
You're welcome! Anytime really if you need more help or just to chat after you break up with him feel free to message me.
I sure will xx
Yes I hate liars. How can you trust your partner if they lie.
yeah ns ://
Yeah I do hate liars. Bc if you forgive them, then what's gonna make you think that they aren't going to lie again?
yeah that's my problem :/ he just keeps apologizing and he doesn't change
I hate myself because I hate liars.(Think about it...)
Yes lying is really bad... if a relationship has to continue there should be truth first
yeah that's what I think. thankyou
everyone lies , some timea you lie even if u don t know it
yeah but this is more than once and its not a little lie
Yeah. But to be honest a little white lie one in a blue moon is understandable.
yeah I don't really care about those
but he told a big one and not just once
So he's like a serial liar? Most people lie to avoid uncomfortable situations. It's also a way of avoiding responsibility for your actions.
yeah he always lies. even about the little things he doesn't need to lie about
that's his problem. or he could be lying because he's afraid that the truth might disgust you, and then you'd leave him.
but him lying all the time is pushing me away :/
then break up with him. from the sounds of it you can do much better than him.
yeah but its gonna hurt :/
the night is darkest just before dawn.
yeah xx thanks
if it's big lye then yes, but if it's small lye and he lyes you because he has a surprise for you then no
true hey. but nah this was a big and not the first time he has done it
why is he doing that
he's been messaging other girls and lying about it and deleting messages
and I have caught him 3 times
if i will be on your place I will break the relationship
and it's sad he is doing this
yeah but we have been together for a year :/
you can do the same thing to him. I congratulating to you because you are together one year
haha thanks x
If it's a serious lie then yes. Little minor lies are fine but if they keep up it makes me wonder if something more serious is going on.
Yes veryy i hate liars
yeah me too :/
The question is who doesn't hate liars
Once a liar, is always a liar
so true :/
well it depends why they lie
YEAH nd everyone does I guess
It is a deal breaker.
Yes i hate liars...
Yes I hate liars
yeah me too :/
yes ı do
me too x thankyou
yes. who wouldn't?
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