I was just wondering I've heard a lot that if you minimize contact with your ex, he would miss you and probably come back to you. I'm pretty sure it's worked before, but what if you and your ex decide to stay best friends, then what? Also, what if you do minimize contact, and control your emotions when you're around with what if they think you've moved on so they end up moving on?
During a break-up, how do you really know if he still truly loves you, but he doesn't want to be with you because of the fact he feels as if you're smothering him?
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If the break up was because he felt smothered he may have been wanting to "move on" and just being in the relationship he didn't want maybe was making him feel "smothered". But if he truly loves you he would definately miss you with no contact. Wait at least 5 full days before you make contact with him from the last time you had contact. Even if you just run into him somewhere--wait 5 full days from that time. Start over counting the days every time you see/talk to him. If he is missing you he will contact you each time before it gets to the 5th day. Also be busy a lot so it doesn't appear you are sitting around waiting for him. You will either get over him or he will come begging for you to come back. Also make a rule that if he calls you after 7:00pm you don't see him that evening but maybe make a date for the next day or so.0