So we're talking and not going out really yet because of the distance he says. But he invited me to a party at his place at first I said no. He looked kinda sad when I said that but he said he wasn't when I asked him. But I could tel that he was kinda disappointed. Anyways like 2 days latter I text him that I'm gonna come but late and he texts back a smiley face. Anyways when I was there I felt like he didn't even acknowledge that I was even there and that he didn't pay any attention to me. I felt like it was him and his friends in one circle and me all alone. I felt like he was different towards me while he was in front of everyone else than when he's alone with me. So after being there a while I go outside and talk on my phone because I feel left out. So after like 10-20 min of being outside I text him that I am leaving. 10minutes afterward I start to walk to my car and I heard him yell my name and he walks towards me. He asks me why I m leaving, am I mad at him?, why I'm mad at him. I'm like no and he's like I feel like your mad at me. Then he's like sorry you're disappointed and that he will make it up to me. Then a peck on the lips. So d I have the right to be a little mad at him?
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no don't look for excuses as alcohol could be a factor ... I will be direct! he left you out ...which means one of the two : 90% he is not into you , 10% he wanted you to go and talk to him .. but no..it was his party and you were not supposed to do that , so there is a huge maybe that he doesn't like you ( I know you didn't mention anything about feelings but I just like being clear .. you can ignore me lol ) , anyway no don't be mad . but be as diplomat as possible .. if he calls you don't answer the first time .. if he calls you again later , answer but cold . if he asks you out be like " nah I don't feel like " or " maybe some other time " .. show him ur not interested in going out with him because of his lame behavior ... but don't show you are sad or he will consider you close minded .. or acting like a kid or something .. don't forget to be all natural ;-)
optional : try indirectly to 'teach' him how to treat someone like you ( yes you have to make yourself valuable to everyone ) .. you are not just anyone .. you deserve something better .. ( if you know what I mean ) . good luck =)0