My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and four months. We attend the same college and have a few mutual friends. Recently we went to a party that someone from our school had. A lot of people from our college was there and it was a lot of people I didn't know. Every one was drinking. And I was drunk and I danced with a few of his friends. I didn't know they were his friends because I don't know all of them. If I knew it was his friends I wouldn't of danced with them. The next day he broke up with me and said this is something he can't get past. He saw me dancing with a few of his friends. I've stuck by him through so much and he can't look past this one thing. I believe that he was over reacting. Do you guys agree with him breaking up w me?
Most Helpful Guy
He's a fucking sissy whiney crybaby lameass. What does he expect that you were gonna do when you're just having fun and had been drunk? Ask him, if it was in reverse and you treated him the same way, then how'd he feel about it? I think he's very insecure and jealous af. Ask him, what is it exactly that he is expecting from you or that he really wants from you? Ask him how exactly and why he can't get past this one thing? Reassure him you'd always be loyal to him and him only, and if he can't get past this one thing then so be it. I mean dancing and getting drunk isn't the same as making out with another guy or sleeping with another guy, so he needs to chill the fuck out.0
Most Helpful Girl
he could have been over reacting but when you're in a relationship you're obviously looking for me in the future such as marriage. whether you knew they were his friends or not I don't believe you should have danced with anyone besides your man because in some ways it can look like lack of respect for him. when alcohol is involved people have different ways of taking things. i do hope y'all can over come it but if not then at least you know for future reference and it was a lesson learned1