My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and four months. We attend the same college and have a few mutual friends. Recently we went to a party that someone from our school had. A lot of people from our college was there and it was a lot of people I didn't know. Every one was drinking. And I was drunk and I danced with a few of his friends. I didn't know they were his friends because I don't know all of them. If I knew it was his friends I wouldn't of danced with them. The next day he broke up with me and said this is something he can't get past. He saw me dancing with a few of his friends. I've stuck by him through so much and he can't look past this one thing. I believe that he was over reacting. Do you guys agree with him breaking up w me?
Most Helpful Guy
he may have been over reacting but in a way understand but dont get me wrong its nothing to dump you over just tell you felt a wee bit uncomfortable you doing that if I was him , its not like you were dancing proctive were you? (grinding on them , bit touchy, etc etc)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
he could have been over reacting but when you're in a relationship you're obviously looking for me in the future such as marriage. whether you knew they were his friends or not I don't believe you should have danced with anyone besides your man because in some ways it can look like lack of respect for him. when alcohol is involved people have different ways of taking things. i do hope y'all can over come it but if not then at least you know for future reference and it was a lesson learned1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE