So I met this guy on an app and he messaged me first, we clicked very well and had A LOT in common. We are both lonely people that get really depressed sometimes and we understood each other. We fell in love with each other and he is VERY sensitive, he's had a fucked up past. He'd always say he loved me and we really cared about each other. Oh by the way we live far away so we were just online dating for a while. The past few days I noticed he was talking short towards me and I was worried a little as to why he was. Everything was great today but then he broke up with me and I was crying and my emotions were spilling out, my friend chimed in and told him off because he was worried for me. While my emotions were spilling out to him on how I felt he texted me saying "I'm done bye" then "I'm leaving for good", now he is sucidal frequently and I was the only person there for him so when he said that I freaked out! It's been like an hour and he hasn't responded, I'm so worried that he might have killed himself. What should I do 😭
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He could be going through something's right now and he could feel like he needs to push everyone away.
I'm so sorry that you are hurting, but I don't think you could do anything for him. Maybe if you knew a couple of his friends you could call them and tell them that you are worried. But from where you stand, I don't see anything that you can do other then tell people who are closer to where he lives.
Maybe he just needs time to think on his own? Just text him or leave him a voice mail telling him that you aren't leaving, and you are always here for him. He needs to know that he is cared for.0