Most Helpful Guy
hey, u don't belong to some place where u r not prioritized. u lost weight u had fight and now u r blaming to some extent urself for the mess. just don't, let her apologize if u even care and let go if she won't1
Most Helpful Girl
You have to do what's best for you, if the living situation is impacting your health then you change your living situation. I'd try and make it as easy for her as I could, giving plenty of notice or continue paying rent for a few weeks so she isn't left in a bind but that's being generous.
You're only responsible for your actions and behaviour, if she's choosing to take this as a personal attack and throw away your history that's her choice. I wouldn't react, just wish her well when you see her and leave it at that1