I broke up with my ex exactly 3 months ago. He is horrible for me and I couldn't see our future's combining. I wasn't sad or upset at all until I found out two weeks ago that he is seeing someone new. Now I'm bothered and jealous. Is this normal? I feel like I'm letting it bother me more than it should... possibly because I decided not to jump into a new relationship (which I could have). But now I'm annoyed that my ex was able to move on so quickly. Though before he decided to make things "official" with his new girl he made sure that I didn't want him back.. I said no. He knew I was jealous though. Is this what he wants?