How do you tell someone you don't want to get too serious right now w/o hurting their feelings? She's a great girl & could probably have anyone she wants but I just don't want to get too serious with her now. I told her that in the beginning & I don't want to lead her on.
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How great that you have such a kind heart and don't want to hurt this girl. To lie - or lead her on - would hurt her more as you know. If you are not seriously interested in her now - why would you be later? I think you like her... but you don't feel that special "something" where you have that feeling you want to be closer to her and know everything about her. If you want to continue seeing her - why not? Who says you have to get serious anyway? Just DATE - keep your options open. Not every girl has to be a relationship but if that is what you are seeking - definitely - let her go. Tell her... " You are a great girl - wonderful person - and it's been great getting to know you! Would love to remain friends with you if that's ok with you, but I'm not ready to have a relationship with anyone right now. I hope you can understand. "
Again - I think it's sweet that you care so much as to not hurt anyone's feelings. I wish more guys were like you.0