There are are so many things I like about him and then things I don't. I love him and I want to be with him but I find myself often trying to change him. Like his style, I make suggestions about what he should do with his hair... or how I would love for him to grow out his facial hair. And then sometimes I wish he was different. He does stuff that can be very immature and questionable he's 21 I am 20.
im confused as to what I should do. Lately I haven't been able to really see a future with him. He's been distant and focused. Stressed out and not the same guy I fell in love with. Maybe this will pass...
though everytime i think of breaking up with him I cry because I can't imagine being with someone else.
Most Helpful Guy
Could his stress be from you? Many people don't realize that a contributing factor to their significant other's stressed demeanor could also be themselves.
I think that people should stop expecting perfection out of those they're dating, and they'll probably see that their relationships are much happier. Nobody has a reason to change how somebody decides to style their hair or by what clothing they wear, etc. To attempt otherwise kind of suggests you're not satisfied with how he looks, and if that is important to you, then yes, it might be time to separate and try your luck with a different guy who looks how you want him to.
It's good that you realize that you're trying to change him, as this means you can try to prevent the immaturity within yourself as well.
Most Helpful Girl
yes. it does. You will find someone who is right for you, don't worry