My ex has been ignoring me since the break-up and I have been giving him his space. It's been 8 months and I contacted him in hopes to get in touch. He told me that he's dating, but not in a relationship. He told me that he wanted the break-up because he wasn't ready for a relationship or date, but now I see that it's a lie. He has blocked me from messaging him, except for one application. He'll only respond if I say something first. It usually ends with him saying that I'm an ex and we can't be friends.
I'm mad at him, but I miss him. In the beginning he was a dream, however, he started treating me poorly towards the end (physically and verbally). I knew he was stressed so I always put his outbursts behind. For some reason, I can't stay mad at him. I'm doing my own thing except dating other people. I'm not ready at the moment.
Can anyone from a previous or similar experience like mine share a thought? I need all the advice I can get.
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Yeah sadly, I regret it. He broke up with me the first time because he claimed he wasn't ready for a relationship. Almost a year later, he asks me out again, everything is just peachy for three weeks, and then the bombshell. He had been cheating on me with four other girls, one of which being my "best friend". So I don't know if I'm ever getting back together with another ex again.1