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if u really ended up broken r u feel like u were broken on some issue u decide tht 1st and aftr if u really don't wanna see her thn u try to cut all tht belongs to her so tht u get hurt seeing her r her family members bcz every time u see someone belong to thm it make ur mind reminds the girl u were with started hurting urself
but that's what I'm tying to tell these people on here. he didn't unfriend me. which he should I'm not doing that job. that's he's job. they saying whole different other stuff and don't know the storys. others say they would delete and even if he wasn't active on facebook and which he is active on facebook he post stuff that I don't even look at. waste of space. could care less. he doesn't make any sence he's confusing his self.
depends on what went down and how it happened. You wouldn't cut ties for most break ups. You definitely would for the ones that went nuclear.It comes down to how mature each person can handle the aftermath and rebuild process.
Two reasons: 1. maybe he haven't completely made up his mind. 2. He doesn't need you. but he needs the benefits he could get from your family/you.
nice! but that's not going to happen. he could stay on and enjoy my private life on facebook
we've went out 2ND time. not going back out with him. I don't understand why he's not seeing anyone it's been 2 months
Easiest thing is to make up your own mind. Take a firm decision and move on.
I did move on been did that.
I would be happy once he decide to delete me.
Being friends with someone on Facebook doesn't mean that you are good friends with him/her in real life. FB is just a website. If the connections in a website effects your real life, what do you think you should be doing? You should simply avoid them. In other words simply unfriend him by yourself. otherwise you will never gain the peace you seek. Good Luck..
I'm not friends with him. that's his job to unfriend. avoiding him is not bothering me I just had a weird thought of him not unfriending yet. thanks hun and thanks for listening hun
You are welcome ☺
another question for me to ask
if I tease someone about a girl by saying I saw your girlfriend or I saw to ur girlfriend pic. in a calm and no angery way while smiling. why would he think I'm jealous? I don't care who he likes or talk to I'm not the jealous type. I like you or love you and loyal. he didn't know that about me plus he thinks all females are jealous types.
not being a jealousy person does not mean she's not loyal. I don't know where people get they mind from. but anyways yeah he thought I was jealous. okay so if I saw a girl looking at him and I smile or I saw I know he gets it all the time. you would think I'm jealous too? or if I say look babe you have an admirer while smiling would you think I'm jealous?
It's all about understanding each others feelings.. he needs to understand your concerns and you have to understand his reality. sometime that means giving each other a bit of more healthy space. The best way to work it out is to put a long open chat.
I would, depending on how involved we were, it's just not good manners to keep contacting someone after a break up.
misunderstood. I didn't contact him never did not planing either. he didn't delete me off fb yet. wouldn't he deleted us both? that's the question I'm asking
o okay I got you. I thought you was saying something else. yes definitely that's what I don't understand it's weird he's weird
I don't think I'd have deleted you but I wouldn't reach out to you either. I'd wait for you to set the tone, but that's just me. He might be different.
so why not delete. I don't do deleted I make him do that's not my problem. we've been of and on dating. plus he delete my cousin also. I have no intention of getting back with him. he could stay on page. he needs a girlfriend seriously.
will i do stuff different too
we broke up and went back out it was the sane thing didn't delete.
yeah, he might benefit from that. delete if you want. I'd follow along and delete you too if I find out you don't want to contact me later.
actually. that's he's job hun
exactly why would you if we not talking anymore. makes no sense.
I could care less when he does delete me.
That would depend on how toxic that relationship was. Personally I see no need to hold onto the past if I wish to embrace my future. If that means less or no dealings with an ex, so be it.
I've been moved on ever since he broke up. just said whatever that's just me
he need to hurry up and delet me because he's weird for not unfriending me. that's he's job to do. not mines. he's the one that broke up
It's a mental thing some guys and girls play but I'm aware of that bs. Delete his ass for your own sake and be done with it.
yes he is mental. lol you should see the stuff he does on facebook. like wow it's that serious and the thinks he post to think I'm the jealous type. he must be on some high stuff. wrong chick
yes I know i hate drama and childish things. that's he's job to delete he's the one the broke up with me. that's not my job hun
Most, not all but most males can't see past their ego's
Just saying, it's not a matter of whose job it is if you just want to rid yourself of him and his bs.
no sir I don't have time for that. I'm the type that don't care, calm, and likes to ignore and make then be invisible to me. no matter how hard they make they self look online. I just smile while they still last while there thinking so hard of questions why it's not working. I know he thinking why i didn't delete him too. it's not what he's thinking that's for sure
Well if you broke up on adult terms then why would you want to lose a person you loved and cared for
yes i would compete distance myself from your life if it was me as i just can't be friends with exs
All depends on on close friends I was with the family...
ever since we was together and since we broken up. he haven't talk to my male cousin.
Yes her an not all family if your friends with a few
It would depend. I'm friends with most of my ex's.
nice. but he ended it and my mom don't like him no more because he's weird and evil and selfish and no respect. and he knew that because of what happend.. but if he know that why not unfriend me. I sure dont like him so. care less. just asking
we broke up 2ND time sure hot doing that again
At that point I'd cut all ties.
that's what im trying to say people. but haven't told them this and all. do you know why he didn't unfriend me and my cousin? he's always active on fb and my cousin that he's friends with also sees his post except me. he doesn't even talk to my cousin on facebook
and he know he wasn't treating me good because he told me when we was in a relationship. and he said he sorry that he will make it up. always sorry
I don't always unfriend people right away. It's easier than befriending them if you decide it was a mistake. I don't know him so I'm not sure why he hasn't. I'd just be guessing.
depends on terms we split on?
he probably just haven't noticed it.
he did notice Oneal's post and he always sees my cousin post.
I post sometimes. I just don't get it why he still didn't unfriend us. I'm not intending him because that's not my job to do he's the one that broke up with me. does that make since?
well if it's a big deal to you, why don't you and your relatives unfriend him.
I'm not doing the unrelenting because that's not my problem to do. and my cousin is saying that's up to him to delete him too
that's he's job
thanks for listening lol
Yes I would
exactly! I could care less
Mont you think that's weird. you know we broke so why not unfriend. this don't make no sense
Is he not active on Facebook? I'm not and that would make sense then
yes he is. I sign on and I check who I want to talk to on my friends list not messenger and you would see new post that I don't even look at like seriously.
all I'm saying even if you was or wasn't active which he is on facebook. you know we broke up why not still unfriend me and cousin after 2 months. why still have me on there. he's making he's self look weird. it's your job to delete why haven't you. he could stay on don't care
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