7 months ago broke up with my fiance. We have known each other 30 plus years. We never were in a place to be together until 2015. When we got together of course it was great. We felt like we finally had our chance. At 53 years old , it was time! Things got off to a rocky start but leveled out. We were together a year. September 2015 he proposed. 3 months after he proposed things went south. Lots of argument. Then one very final blowout and I gave the ring back and he left. The first month very little communication. I even saw him on my Bday. Then after that the door shut. No contact for almost 3 months. Then the door opened. Started with emails and phone calls. Even came and took me to dinner once while he was in town. Then he shut it again and I have not heard from him in 10 days. Its like he wants to open up , then the slightest thing said that could be wrong he shuts the door. We have been apart 7 months. Should I let this go. Yes, I should not have given the ribg back , but my god how much of this nonsense is worth holding on to? Any suggestions, ideas, comments?
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What Guys Said 3
A lot depends on your histories. If this is a first relationship for him at 53 (or thereabouts) all bets are off.0
Trust your instincts and go by that. Sounds like it's more trouble than it's worth0
1st thing is u shuld hav givn ring back0
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