I've been with this guy who's two years younger and at first everything was great because he lived in the same area. Then, he moved away once he graduated. So, now, I rarely see him. I'm getting tired of texts and calls. I want a boyfriend I can see, hold and spend time with. He recently gave me a promise ring, but he said he'll probably not be ready for more until he's financially stable. He lives at home with his family still, hasn't ever lived away (except in a dorm) and doesn't have a real job.I don't know if I'm willing to wait for him to join the adult world. To top it all off, I've been getting the itch to just be single and have fun. Question- Do I end it or try something new to spark things up again?
I'm 26 and tired of being in a relationship of 2 years.
What Guys Said 2
I would end it and move on. Life is much more enjoyable when you are free to have fun. Heck, you might even meet someone else and forget about him.1
I always say to stick it out, try and get over the little things. But for this question doesn't seem to have the light at the end of the tunnel, there's just a whole bunch of problems and it seems like the only reason you stuck with him until now is because you wanted to stay committed.
And of course he will probably at least want his ring back.1
What Girls Said 2
END IT you gave him 2 years and your not missing anything but all the other guys that are there! and that can be there for you and probably give you a fireworks show not just a spark...you ever heard of that saying you will be better when your older well that saying is for him...im mean if he was around and you were madly in love with him that's different your not so why stay in that mundane box with him with his fadeing promises and wasting this fadeing time? I'm reading your question and you just sound bored lol you need to be happy, you need the excitment its all up to you to grab it.1
i think you should talk to him about every thing but if he don't want to move in with you or what ever you need to talk about then break up with him1
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