We haven't talked since the break up but he told his sister/my best friend he wanted to be friends with me again.
He screwed me over basically for the girl he told me he didn't like, and got with her right after our break up.
But now I think he's getting annoyed with her and even though I don't want him back whatsoever and I don't see him like I used to, I don't want to have to hear from him about the amazing girl I got left for.
I want to leave our past in the past and move on as friends because after so long I don't want it to still be awkward when we're around each other. If I texted him would this be a bad idea? What would he think? I don't want him taking it the wrong way.
- Good Idea, he'd see it as friendshipVote A
- Good idea, but its hard to see how he'll take itVote B
- Bad idea, he'll see it as you wanting himVote C
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Don't do it. If he wants you bad enough let him do the work. Why would you reach out to him when he walked away from you? Yes, I totally understand that you don't want things to be ackward but realize that if he wanted the friendship, he would have made it happen.
Need proof? I had one chance to see to my ex, just one(she was leaving to go on holidays for a month, she was killing time until she had to leave for the airport and I didn't want to wait until she came back). What did I do? I left work told them I had a family emergency and in hopes to catch her while she was alone. I just had to see her. I came back to work after saying I'd only be about an hour (I was gone for three hours) and I almost got fired, but I didn't regret getting in crap to see that pretty face.