He would text me every Morning with a sweet message, or goodnight which was lovely especially when we didn't get to see each other and we would talk on Whatsapp throughout the day. Lately, I feel very disconnected. It started when the texts stopped coming in the mornings, and when I mentioned it, he mentioned it'd be nice to see some nice morning messages from me too. I'm not a lovely dovey girl, but I made the effort and started texting him first too. But funnily enough he texted even less and so I gave up on it but we still had general conversations. Notably, he's currently not working (and neither am I) so it's weird we see each other less than when we worked full time.
He's not mentioned meeting, and when I asked as it'd been just over 2 weeks, he spoke of not having enough money for petrol or train fare. In a conversation the day after he was complaining about the traffic to somewhere much further than where I live (from his house).
On Saturday (it's Wednesday as I'm writing this) he texted me saying he's feeling really down. So I texted back and asked him why he thinks he feels the way he does... He has read it and not replied.
I want to support him, but the truth is I've also been feeling down, and something I haven't mentioned is his tendency to be really into his own feelings and not taking into account mine. I don't think it's right that he can choose when he wants to speak to me. And even more annoying that in the past when I suggested a break (for both of our benefits) It was a NO, but now it's like he's taking his own personal break without even letting me know.
Sorry for for such a long question, but id appreciate any advice that comes!