He was abusive, but I want him back?

My ex boyfriend of 3 years, moved out of my home 2 months ago. I asked him to leave after the terrible and abusive fights we had. Although we don't talk anymore, I miss him and want him back. My psychologist keeps telling me that my ex is abusive and manipulative- but I don't seem to care. Has anyone gone through this? Any advice?


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  • It's the absence of having someone there, and those thoughts you had in your head of a healthy relationship, even when it wasn't.

    You need to move on, and find someone better. But first you need to love yourself, and get over him. You need to be okay being on your own.

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  • why would you want him back, try and move on

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  • Honestly? It's probably the feeling of appreciation and being meaningful to someone that you miss, even if he was abusive to you.

    It's not uncommon for people to feel this way even when their relationship has been shit.

    Find someone who will treat you well, and treat them well. You'll see why your missing this relationship was a fluke.

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  • No but many women have. Go look online to https://www.thehotline.org they can help you.
    Or look at local women's shelters they may have meetings.
    Convince yourself that if you take him back you are a goner, literally, and your family and friends would hate to loose you.

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  • Women are very weird and unlogical.

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  • let him go you want the abuse to keep on

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  • Just move on don't try do it.

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