Most Helpful Guy
he doesn't know what he wants and that makes closure hard to get.
the right partner for you is the one who can help you satisfy your important long term needs and not your short term bursts of emotions... unfortunately, he does the opposite and returns only when things get worse to prepare himself for his next trip.
the truth you're looking for isn't going to make things better. if you want closure... you need to consciously control your desires by moving yourself away from the people you are attracted to if they don't meet your long term needs.
Most Helpful Girl
maybe he's depressed. whenever he wants to leave you he says he never loved you its his excuse of ending things.