A girl at my job thats liked me for a while kissed me the other day and admitted to liking me for a long time. her boyfriend has been weary of our friendship for since we met, always accusing her of liking me which was true. When she kissed me I had told her this isn't right she has a boyfriend. but I gave into and kissed her back.
The next day she breakups with him and tell me she wants to be with me. I respond by saying that im not sure if us getting together after she breaks up with him is a good idea right now and we need some space and to take things slow. she wouldn't listen she said she has a good feeling about me. We went out 3 times that week had a great time. she called it the best week of her life.
I go to work the next morning and she's tell me she admitted to her ex she kissed me and everything else that happened that week.. saying she's sorry for the whole mess, thats she's a whore, and he deserved to know.
Before my shift starts a few days ago she comes up to me apologizing and all I could do is look at her with digust and walk away.
She was my best friend. Like I know I wasn't used to make him jealous.. but I just dont know what I did wrong.. or why she went back to him. she does crave attention and the night before she told her ex about us I didn't respond to her messages the last text she sent was I love you and I wake up the next morning to one saying I told him about us. like she isn't a bad person but the way she was acting the past 3 weeks is the complete opposite of how she normally is. this is petty but I didn't care much for their relationship at first but not that I feel like I was used I kinda want it to fail heh.
No im not selling myself short, im like 310.
her boyfriend is a pretty good looking guy too.
and the other day I saw her she looked miserable. Coworkers used to say she lights up whenever I walk by. I dont see that anymore.
Anyway its just a little uncomfortable.
Most Helpful Girl
Whether you accept her apology or not is not going to change anything, as in her leave her boyfriend for you. Nor will it magically fix your bitterness at having been rejected, regardless of whether it was from a girl who cheated on her s/o with you or not.
I don't see anything that she said/did that might imply she has regrets.3
Most Helpful Guy
Uhm you didn't specify but apparently she offically got back with her boyfriend after kissing you and spending the week with you right?
If thats true you dodged a bullet my guy, she probably got in an argument with her boyfriend and wanted some time "for herself" (i. e. with another guy, who happened to be you).
She sounds crazy, and she will probably leave her boyfriend again in some time.
If that happens and she flirts with you again beware not to fall in the "first person to tell ne im cute" trap, dont get too attached to her (not saying you shouldn't bang her if you have the occasion lol).
She seems like a mess emotionally wise1