A girl who I hadn't seen for months and who I liked and asked out a few times (which she said yes for a couple times, then "busy" after that)...I met her again and when we talked it was like we didn't miss that much. But in the end, she didn't care, didn't give a crap about me, just let me go without saying bye. I keep thinking to myself that if I said "this thing" or "brought this up" or "harken back to this inside joke we had" then she would've changed her mind/attitude and done something different. It's driving me insane. How can I free myself from replaying these scenarios over and over again?