It's tearing my heart. He's moved on and has a new girl. I'm still living in our memories and I don't feel I'll ever move on. I still think of our first date and every single moment that made me happy.
I still remember his voice and how he hugged me.
I feel the whole break up was and still is my fault, even though he was flawed, and many of my friends say he's no good for me and it's his fault.
I just don't see my life without him and it scares me because I know we'll never be together and I need to move on.
... just how does one move on?
Most Helpful Guy
At some point you need to stop thinking about him, block him everywhere facebook, delete number etc. Then start doing something in your life, if you succeed with this, you will stop thinking about him and eventually feel better, otherwise this is like a bermuda's triangle, you need to act in order to get out of this, because the only person being hurt is you.1
Most Helpful Girl
Dear, I've head a boyfriend who was quite manipulative and emotionally abusive. He broke up with me once and I begged him to take me back. He treated me bad anyway and broke up with me the second time later. I was unhappy. But he hugged me too, we had good memories too, when I used to come out of the shower he used to kneel down and dry my feet with a towel. So romantic, but he didn't love me anyway and was really a dickhead to me. I realized it only after my feelings faded and then I hated myself for ever begging him. I should have broken up with him first. Try to think objectively, did he really treat you right, with love and respect or was it just YOUR FEELINGS that made you happy? This is a very important question. Anyway, he gave up on you. You need someone to cherish you. If it's meant to be, he'll come back but don't focus your life on this thought. Go out, be awesome, make a better version of yourself and make him regret losing you by how great you are.1