So my ex-girlfriend and I were together for a year and a half, and she had to leave me for her job that required her to go around the world. She had said she wanted to break up because she had no longer loved me the same way we started. Yet she cried her heart out and wanted to ask me if I'd ever take her back (in the future) since she hurt me. Needless to say I was pretty hurt by it since she was my first girlfriend, first kiss, first sexual experience, we did everything new together. I can handle the stress, the heartache of losing her, but how do I help her out? Or do I at all? Should I just move on? Or should I figure myself out and give her a second chance far into the future? (I'm a bit annoyed at that last one because it makes me feel like I'm gonna be her backup plan after she meets a bunch of guys since I'm not holding her back anymore...)
So, Girls, and Guys: What say you?
Most Helpful Girl
I think if she doesn't meet a ton of guys, you should still consider being with her again. I think it depends on how you felt during the relationship, if it was a year and a half I imagine that you guys were extremely close. You may not find something like that for a long time. consider it1
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, the same thing happened to me, but the roles were exhanged.
that was three weeks ago.
it's hard but don't think about ot, what's the point?
never. be a backup plan, consider yourself lucky to have had this relationship with her. take it as a great positive experience which will help you grow up, and taught you a lot.
that's how i do, try to make new encounters, don't let her image stay in your head forever1