Needed some input on my friends situation bc at this point idek what to tell her
*She was in a relationship with someone for 3 years with intention of marriage but he broke up with her a month ago bc he said he doesn't love her as much anymore & they're both busy
*They're both different religious sections so that was always gonna be a problem with their parents (also they never banged)
*She texts him daily still and tries to get back with him but he keeps saying no and to move on BUT if they don't talk he still msgs her and asks how she is what she's doing etc etc but keeps it platonic
I suggested to her that she should go NO contact for a month or 2 and even though she agreed, he msgs her daily asking what's wrong how's work etc and then she gives in so I'm not sure.. What do you recommend? Also just to make it clear - she wants him back desperately
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Well obviously she needs to cut him off. She should let him know to stop texting her. It wouldn't have worked from the start, with the different religion sects. Which got me wondering, during those 3 years have they met up?
If he broke up with her a month ago and they're still talking she sounds like a backup plan. If that little thing don't work out with girl 2 he comin back to girl 1 saying he missed her blah blah and shit.
If she really wants him back or if she wants to see if he still has feelings she can try making him jealous, see how he reacts.2