Last summer I was in a relationship with a guy. It started off great, we were happy. He began abusing me, physically and sexually later on:'( I'm terrified to date again and I just honestly can't see men the same way anymore.. I need help.. What can I do to try and forget about what happened, and what if I never find someone who is different? Men are usually just all the same
Most Helpful Guy
that relationship isn't your fault and I'm sure you didn't know about what was going to happen... so don't blame yourself for what happened and thank God this relationship is over.
this is not a good time to look for a new relationship or men... you better start to build you self-confidence to create a good relationship with yourself before committing to any other relationship... cuz If you knew your points of strength and points of weaknesses well your confidence won’t be shaken when you start saying No to the wrong guy or relationship.
take a break and spend more time with people who make you smile for nothing.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm sorry you had to go through that- it must have been difficult to endure and get out of. you definitely need to speak to someone that you trust about it-you are not alone in dealing with this. therapy helps a great deal in processing your feelings and understanding yourself. Don't worry about dating for now. Just focus on healing and building yourself back up. I think you are already a strong person for stepping away from someone like that. There are as many different types of men as there are women. Your experience with this person is not a reflection of every guy out there but was a lesson of what to avoid with the next one.1