Most Helpful Girl
Some people just get with another person to try and forget about the pain of losing a meaningful relationship, think of rebounds. Others just disconnect from their feelings and are able to see others because they just don't allow themselves to think about the matter.
Most Helpful Guy
This just varies from person to person. I was over my divorce immediately, but my ex-wife... damn, she just continues to find ways to troll me. But at the same time, I know that managers at work have joked that they think I'm a robot and let's face it, I certainly have a hand in the failure of that marriage so maybe there are negatives to being one of those people who don't get too attached?