Which is more painful?

i broke up with my boyfriend recently and i felt so immense pain that i was wondering if i would have felt better if he passed away instead *touch wood*. the difference is that when u lose someone whos still alive, u can try to negotiate and get them back. (which might worsen your emotions tbh) but when someone passes away, you have no choice but to accept it and move on. im not sure which is more easy to accept and move on though.
Losing someone you love who is still alive (breakups)
Vote A
Losing someone you love bc s/he passed away
Vote B
Vote C
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Which is more painful?
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