we have been together for almost a year now, and about 9 months ago he moved to California for 5. a month after he moved a guy who I had sex with before I even met my boyfriend was pretty much begging me to have sex with him and showing up at my house late at night because he was so f***ing desperate. I felt really bad for him because he had no friends and I did take his virginity and left him hanging after that, even though we had been friends for 4 years. I never wanted to cheat on him, but I just lost all control and I had sex with him. after that, I stopped talking to him and ignored all his texts. my boyfriend already can't trust me, and I know if I tell him he will never be able to again and he might break up with me but I can't live with this on my conscience anymore.
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Better to keep this quiet. What he doesn't know won't hurt him, and you should write this off to an earlier life.0