I want to get back together with my ex but usually he doesn't seem interested in getting back together, but sometimes he tells me yes he does want to get back together and he seems totally in. Then the next day I try to talk to him and he totally shuts me down. He has done this a few times. What does he want?
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both of you don't know what you want and that makes things unclear.
the problem is that you accept to underestimate your value by making him take the decision to decide who you are and when you should be in his life, and that gives him a chance to treat you badly (low self-esteem).
Unfortunately, you know that relationship consuming your health, ruining your self-confidence and slowing your progress in life... so do the right thing and blame yourself for not doing the right thing.0