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If I left my wife and kids for someone else? Even if the new woman was pure perfection in every way, I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt. My wife would have to seriously drive me off on purpose before I could consider it. Even then, I would want to remain important in my children's lives.
My uncle did this to his kids. He came back eventually but they never really forgave him. My poor cousin had mixed feelings when he passed away.
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I think the question is, if he is the type of person to leave his family, why should you care about him?
It's not always a black and white issue. There are many reasons why a relationship breaks up.
sure if you're a teenager.when she said family I'm assuming children and a life being built.not many excuses for that one
You're assuming that teenagers don't care enough to feel regret?
he left me for someone else and knocked her up. he hasn't seen the boys in 2 years and lives 2 houses down. but he's managed to sleep with me a few times... ur right what kind of man is that. which is why I don't want him back. I just want to know he will regret it. he is numbing himself with drugs and alcohol. I just want to know I'm worth missing.
In the long term yes. It can't be easy on you with him living a couple of doors down.
ya.. It's hard but I don't want that life. he cheats on her constantly. id rather have something healthy and strong
Hang on for it, make sure of it. Think yourself lucky you got away from this feckless idiot.
I'm not saying teens don't regret lol I'm saying it's easy to break up as a teenager , much less entanglement.as adults we leave more than just feelings behind. children, debt, lives built. relationships are very different as adults and need to be taken more seriously.of course you're worth missing! more than that, you're worth more than a piece of trash like him.you need to set your sights much much higher my dear.he is on a self destructive path that isn't even worth watching.find someone who treats you and your children as the most precious thing in the world, even in the rough times
There's always some regret. It wouldn't be normal if there wasn't. But, in all likelyhood, there's no desire to go back. I miss my sons a lot, but i'd never go back to my ex. She has done all in her power to ostracise me from my sons, my family, and the friends we had. To the extent i have no contact with my sons, my family, except for my sister, and none of the "friends" we have have ever contacted me.
My ex-wife was the one who left. She finally built up to having a relationship with our son again, to the point where he will be living with her next year (sucks for me having been primary guardian for last 7 years, but it looks like it will be good for him which is what matters most)
Yes, they often do, typically toward the end of their life. Sometimes they try to reestablish relations with their children but this is seldom very successful. By then it is too late.~JSmith
Yes, horribly. She must be some kinda awful woman. My first divorce cost me right at half a mill. People ask why divorce is so expensive - cuz IT'S WORTH IT!!!
i think they do... but some are too coward to face the sad truth
Not enough to change their behavior and that's what matters.
I'm sure they do, but why do that in the first place?
No.. Either he was run off. Or he's just sorry as f#ck. If he was run off - he $till pays child support and has visitation rights. If he's sorry as f#ck then he just abandons them.
Either way though - He's not sorry.
There will be some regret in bottom of his heart. Afterall, he is human being. I think so.
every guy is diffrent i wouldn't though.
never have never will.. cannot understand this.
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