Most Helpful Guy
Hey Anonymous OP,
Please read, I'll be brief.
I'be been in both situation : your's, and your boyfriend's.
To be clear, he needs help, and you won't be able to give it to him, even if it seems so, it'll end up being not enough, and you'll fall too.
Ask his brother to look for him, send him a letter saying you can't make him happy, and you're breaking. Cut it all, you won't have to deal with it.
If you try to be friend, he'll begin again, hurt himself, tell you he did so, and it'll be bad for both.
If you ignore him, there is effectively a small chance he'll do a thing, so that's why you should tell his brother before you break that you did so, and your boyfriend will go bad, and then find a new hope. He'll stand again, and you'll live again.
Trust me, it could take time for both of you, but you'll end up better.
Take care of you, little snowflake.
Most Helpful Girl
That's emotional manipulation. Call the police if you think he will kill himself. I don't think he will follow through so end it. If he does intend to follow through, then he would tell you because he wants you to feel bad.