My girlfriend of 6 years (soon to be Ex, I guess) cheated on me. This took place this Friday, I work Monday to Friday and often pull very long work shifts as I run my own plumbing company, as such I have very erratic work schedule. On that particular day I went to help out an old couple as their basement flooded. I finished around 11:30 PM and started heading back home, calling it a night. As I gotten on the highway my phone rang, the caller was my Girlfriend. So as I usually do I accepted the call, something I now I wish I never heard. There it was my Girlfriend moaning and some guy saying bunch of dirty shit to her.
Today I went to see her like I usually do each Saturday and Sunday (I always made this day just for her, so no work on the Weekends). She acted as if nothing has happened, I also did not say anything. I don't know if she is playing dumb or does not know that she or the guy called me yesterday and I got to listen to her getting her brains fucked out on my hands free system.
I'm really lost for words, I wanted to fucking crash my truck yesterday on the highway. I stopped by a gas station and smoked 2 packs in few hours, and I quit smoking 4 years ago. I'm really dumbfounded here, I never cheated on her and made her feel wanted and desired. I also made sure she was satisfied sex wise, but I guess it wasn't enough.
I do have a raw idea who she may have fucked, as 4 hours prior she told me she is going out for her best friends birthday. The other thing is that I now have a promise ring sitting around which I wanted to give her and finally move up to next step after our 6 years of good and bad.
To be honest I will go see her tomorrow and tell her we are done, I will also make sure her parent's know and I will give her the promise ring. She can keep it, as a reminded of the shit she did. What would you do fellow GAG members if you were in my shoes? And is my way of ending it sufficient or should I do something more?
PS. There were bunch of people in there as well :)
Most Helpful Girl
Ditch the bitch.
You are still young and don't have kids together.
Time to start over kid.
Ending a 6 year relationship is going to be difficult but you can do it.
Just don't let this affect your future relationships because there are some truly nice gals out there.1
Most Helpful Guy
Dude listen, your soon to be Ex-Girlfriend was cheating on you long before you found out, which means she was also cheating behind your back while you guys were still in the relationship.
Second keep the friggin ring man, what's wrong with you, it was bought from your hard work and sweat, she's probably gonna trade it in sooner than you think and than you would be more devastated.
Eject the button on this one, you can tell her parents if you want to, but I don't know her parents, but parents usually take their kids side, back her things and send her off.
Dude this incident is heaven sent, imagine her doing that after the wedding and with 2-3 kids later, you would have been working like a mule and living in some shitty apartment while you have to support your kids as well.
Let this one go, her shenanigans would come to a halt at some point in her life, that's where she would realize what she has done, but by the time this happens, she would be history in your books.0