he used to love me and care about me being happy and he wanted to cuddle with me and he would take me on dates and to the movies and do special things for me but then he wanted to be single and he started drinking and partying a lot and he ended up cheating on me, dumping me, then telling me he loved me and having sex with me, only to later say he had been using me for sex and didn't love me and had another girlfriend. even after all this I think only about the good parts and want to be with him. how can i separate my memory of him with who he has become?
Most Helpful Guy
So my thoughts on this and I've known people who were like this... sometimes something happens to someone that changes them entirely. A good friend of mine was a great guy and he was a very devoted guy to his ex. His father passed away and he got involved in drinking and prostitutes... it took place what seemed overnight. since then he has never went back to his normal self. I'm not saying he won't change back but I wouldn't count on it. Try to remember the good times you had and move on. easier said then done I know but time heals everything.0
Most Helpful Girl
People change. Mourn the loss of his good personality and move on with your life. Don't let this guy keep you from finding someone who will actually appreciate you.0