I am 25 years old, 7 months ago I got out of a very abusive relationship that lasted 3 years. I'm trying my best to get therapy and try to move on.
But my ex, he went on this smear campaign against me. And now, I have nothing. I have no one to talk to, no friends to hang out out. No one to send me a `hello, how are you` message. We had moved abroad, we work in Malaysia now. He at the time thought it would be a good idea.
My working hours doesn't allow me to join other activities, I've tried talking to people at cafes, I've tried to go out more often but it's not customary for people to randomly talk to people here.
I don't know what to do... I can't go back home due to financial reasons. I have no family. I'm feeling very very low.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm so sorry that you feel that way, i recently got dumped from my ex who was also my best friend and I feel completely alone and lonely all through the day and I have very few people I talk to. I would love to be your friend, you can always message me when you're feeling very very low and want someone to talk to. Or if you just want to randomly talk, I'd love to know you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Awww it sucks how u can't join a little activity, group, club or program that involves people doing something together, that would of really helped you...
Or maybe a sport.. or finding other jobs. Going to parties etc. Or special events. See there is actually a lot of opportunities to do something and get out there. You'll never be lonely.
Please try.. i know its hard. Otherwise u will make it harder for urself. I barely get out of the house. Which is bad because i choose not too. because i really dont want too which stops me from doing things, since im also shy, introverted and lack confidence.0