My husband is cheating. It's not the first time. I've dealt but this is the first time he won't tell me who it is. All he said was if I ever caught them I should just get over him. I would want to beat him with a baseball bat and I will be shocked like WTF!!! He has really worked overtime to keep this identity hidden. He says she doesn't know me nor will ever approach me. He has been talking in riddles and I'm tired of trying to guess so guys what is he trying to say?