I've been dating him since my senior high school year (22y/o, 5'11, Auburn hair, hazel eyes) and everything is going well. But I am starting to have second thoughts if he is the right one since my physician has expressed interest in me (26y/o, 6'3, Blonde, green eyes). what should I do?
- Forget about the doctor and keep my relationship going on.Vote A
- Break up with my present boyfriend since the physician is such a catchVote B
Most Helpful Guy
PLEASE BREAK UP
because then he is at least not stuck with someone shallow and superficial and isn't wasting his time, money and emotions.
but dont try to get back into his life and hurt him more once the physician dumps you after sex or doesn't call you back or ignores you so that his wife doesn't find out.9
Most Helpful Girl
What the hell? Don't things like loyalty matter to you? Or does that go straight through the window when you want to bang someone else? Sounds a tiny bit flakey to me. If you've built up a strong relationship with someone shouldn't you think a little more rationally about the prolongation of the relationship. Breaking up with someone isn't a joke. There are a lot of feelings and heartache involved and you need to be aware that you will be directly responsible for that. Have empathy. Please.
That is not to say don't break up. Don't get my opinion wrong. If you're not sexually interested in him then it's useless prolonging something what won't work. But be objective. Weigh up the pros and cons and decide what is best for you as a person. Just know there will always be consequences applied to your actions.3