The guy I was dating broke things off three weeks ago because I'm unsure if I want kids (and he definitely does). I'm also a bit anti-religion and its very important to him. Breaking things off was tough for both of us- I think in some ways he took it harder than I did. Since the breakup he's been sending a lot of mixed signals. He made me a birthday card and got up early to tape it to the windshield of my car. He had lunch sent to me on my day off. He posts breakup songs constantly on FB- a lot of which are oriented around wanting someone back, etc. The title for the song he posted today is my name. We're not friends on FB anymore, but I'm fairly sure he knows I can see his profile due to his privacy settings. I want him back, but I don't want to be the desperate girl who chases a guy. I feel like if he's having second thoughts and/or questioning his decision, he needs to be man enough to talk to me, right? This is so hard, and I'm so confused. Any advice?