Whether it's infatuation or liking, whatever this is, I'm having trouble moving on from a girl who just doesn't seem to care at all about me. I'm having trouble with this because I thought our relationship was as such that she'd at least care a little bit, but she doesn't. She doesn't bother to keep in touch, when I'm around she doesn't bother to talk to me, when I leave she doesn't bother to say bye. I made the efforts to do so in the past, but it's not reciprocated. She just doesn't care and the coldness of it hurts me the most. Yes, I have asked her out before and yes, eventually I was rejected, but seeing that we went on two dates, I thought she'd care just a little. But she doesn't. So what can I do to move on? Usually during the day, I eventually feel better, but every morning I wake up with her on my mind and then it eventually turns to her coldness and that's just unbearable. I just can't believe she doesn't care.
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a guy did the same to me. When we first met the energy around us was insane, it wasn't the looks either, he was just an average looking guy, nothing special, but just his attitude, the way he presented himself, the things we had in common, our conversations just made me melt. There was this intense connection between us. I felt like he felt the same about me, everything was going so well, until the summer came and classes ended and he never called me again. I tried to be tough at first get over it, but in the end it kept killing me. I wanted to see him so bad. When new school semesters came, we kept running into each other, he was so cold, but after a year he warmed up again, tried to make amends, and get back into my life. He would come up to me say hi, make intense eye contact, and would try to talk, but something always held him back, and I couldn't do anything because I felt like the balls were in his court. I was the one to message him and initiate contact a lot of the times, and he would come up to me in person. I don't even know what exactly happened, why he was so cold/held back from taking things further. May be he's not a committed type of guy and just wants to flirt around? my friends said he's a player, he's a jerk forget him move on...and such, but at the same time, why do I still feel like when he looks into my eyes there's something he's hiding from me, or something deep he feels about me. I even put my foot down one day and asked him to hang out and he claimed he was busy but would try. He never tried. I felt so rejected and even after that episode, he would continue to say hi to me, talk to me, and make heavy eye contact. All I can do now is walk away pretend I don't know him because he hurt me so bad and doesn't even realize it. I still think of him day and night as well, and miss him, I remember everything about him, and his eyes were just magical. But I'm no one important in his life and he probably hasn't thought twice about me. =[0