My boyfriend and I been together for almost 4 years are relationship isn't perfect we have both done things to each other except for cheat. How ever he doesn't trust me for things I've done the 1st year, he has the habit of looking through my phone. He took my phone from me and seen that I looked up my ex boyfriend I never contacted my ex I was just being nosey on his Facebook & now my boyfriend left me and keeps calling me names like hoe etc. Is it time to move on? Should I feel guilty? The worse part about it is we have a child together and he's still living here sleeping on the couch "because he has no were to go"
Most Helpful Guy
its a two way disaster, he is just overreacting due to his insecurities since not being established
and you are being a bit too nosey for your own good by exposing those insecurities making you boyfriend feel like he is not good enough for you and you still want your ex2
Most Helpful Girl
Calling you a hoe in that manner is wrong. But looking up your ex is not right if you say you are with him. If you are going to do that, at least don't do that in front of him or when you're single. If he left you, then move on. Take this as a learning lesson. What you did can be considered harmless if you had no intention of trying to sabotage your relationship. But many people including myself would not appreciate that. Now, like I always say, I don't agree with premarital sex, shacking up and having kids out of wedlock. But you have to be responsible for what you do. Because now because of this, if he isn't going to reconcile, you now have to deal with your child by yourself. All because you did something that could have been avoided. However, if you knew he had that kind of language, you shouldn't have got with him let alone slept with him. Either way, whose house is it? Yours? Then if he doesn't want to makeup, he has to go.0