Mid year me and my ex where going throw some hard time so we broke up. But we agreed that we would stay in touch and try and work things out. I thought that everything was ok but I found out that he was seeing other people behind my back. After a couple of woman and a couple months later. I decided to start seeing someone else but I was still seeing my ex too... Long story short I got pregnant by one of those guys and I'm not in the right mind set or place to be a mother. I told my ex that I was... but I haven't told the other guy. But his family know about the hole thing. I want to give the child up for adoption for a couple of reasons and I feel like a horrible person because I am doing this. What should I do?
- suck it up and tell the other guy83%(5)80%(8)Vote75%(3)
- Not tell the other guy0%(0)0%(0)Vote0%(0)
- keep the baby17%(1)20%(2)Vote25%(1)
Most Helpful Guy
Although it was reckless of you, and some of the comments are bashing you for your recklessness, I'll refrain from doing so.
Keep the baby, don't keep the baby, it's up to you. But you should make your decision and let the guy who impregnated you know of it. Depending on what he's like, he's going to either agree or disagree, either way you would need to remain firm on your decision.1
Most Helpful Girl
Okay you need to tell the father and need to talk. Tell him that you are thinking to put the baby up for adoption. Just please don't abort the child like these dicks here are telling you.1