Most Helpful Guy
Placing a person in a position where they must choose between love and family is simply stupid but it happens occasionally. When someone is very young and they are dependent on their family, of course the person must choose his family. When we are very young, we are controlled by the support we get from our family. However, a family that does this to a child will pay a heavy price. Usually, when that child matures and becomes self-supporting, he or she will resent the control the family has exercised and rebel against the family. This leads to estrangements that can last a lifetime.
Knowing this does not help you in your current circumstances except that you should understand that your partner has made the choice into which he was forced by circumstances and not the choice of his heart.
Most Helpful Girl
I m replying considering u r frm India. In India people expect u to concentrate in studies and carrer in this age. Trust me no mom here allow his son to date knowingly and ur boyfriend also totally dependant on his family and must be under family pressure. U shuld try to focus on other things and ur life. I knw its very difficult to let go things u very attached to but in this situation u cnt do anything. After few years u wil definitely get someone better who wil be more responsible and wil knw how to handle any situation. Trust me every teenager goes through the same situation here and rarely any elder understands. Try to forget him and move on seriously.