He said he love me and he is serious for me. One day his sister read all of his conversation with me because his phone was lost somewhere and he had to use his sister's cell. He said now we cannot chat on Facebook because he is from very complicated family and his mom is soo superstitious for him till then we didn't broke up but I feel so lonely but it's okay at least we are together and one day is sister text me from his Account. She said I'm his sister and I've read all your conversation with him and you tell me are you his girlfriend I replied yeah he told me that you've read all conversation and I don't understand after that she suddenly get angry with me and blocked me by his account. I feel soo down but I still hope at least he is with me he have two accounts so I text him hey is everything okay your sister just blocked me. He replied now my family knows everything about us now we cannot talk on Facebook at any cost. I feel soo bad for him because I know he is soo scared of his family. We don't talk for 3 days. One day he posted on Facebook that he is suffering from typhoid and he his admitted on hospital. I feel so emotional at that moment because I cannot text him and I just wanted to say I love you soo much how are you are you okay? How's your family? And one day he text me hey I just want to say my mom is soo upset with me. He said that my mom want me not to talk with you otherwise she will never talk to me. I said so do you want to breakup with me. He replied I don't know but I will not talk to you. He says ok bye forever I'm very sorry for hurting you. I was totally broken at that moment I don't want to loose him I said please I really trusted you and you maked a promise that you never leave me. He replied I'm very very sorry you don't have any idea what situation I'm going through I had to listen a lot of abuses from my family and now I can't break my mom's trust by living in a relationship with you and then he said please don't reply after this.
Most Helpful Guy
Placing a person in a position where they must choose between love and family is simply stupid but it happens occasionally. When someone is very young and they are dependent on their family, of course the person must choose his family. When we are very young, we are controlled by the support we get from our family. However, a family that does this to a child will pay a heavy price. Usually, when that child matures and becomes self-supporting, he or she will resent the control the family has exercised and rebel against the family. This leads to estrangements that can last a lifetime.
Knowing this does not help you in your current circumstances except that you should understand that your partner has made the choice into which he was forced by circumstances and not the choice of his heart.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I m replying considering u r frm India. In India people expect u to concentrate in studies and carrer in this age. Trust me no mom here allow his son to date knowingly and ur boyfriend also totally dependant on his family and must be under family pressure. U shuld try to focus on other things and ur life. I knw its very difficult to let go things u very attached to but in this situation u cnt do anything. After few years u wil definitely get someone better who wil be more responsible and wil knw how to handle any situation. Trust me every teenager goes through the same situation here and rarely any elder understands. Try to forget him and move on seriously.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE