I left her 4 months ago and she was devastated but said she was feeling great only 4 days later. We dated for 3 years. We live an hour and a half apart and she was very faithful, I actually was the one who had problems looking at other girls for a lot of the relationship, checking them out and such. She had a lot of trust issues to begin with. Apparently she has anxious attachment, she's an ISFP, and she had issues with abuse from her father. A little over a month after the breakup we hadn't gone more than 2 weeks without talking and she decided she didn't want to speak anymore, she wanted to keep the relationship in the past. I find out 2 months after the breakup she started dating this douchey guy a couple weeks earlier. He got her listening to gangster rap music and she always detested that stuff for being so sexist, she considers herself a feminist. Is she just pretending to be ok and forcing her feelings and her true self in a closet to avoid thoughts of me?