Most Helpful Guy
you can't, just let things go
because every attempt that you make at even talking at him is gonna add to things that he thinks are proofs of neediness.
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should let both of yourselves rest first. It seems like time has to mend whatever tears and stretches your relationship has. If you guys still feel the same for each other and are at a better state after, let's say months or years after but no specific given time, then have another go at the relationship. But if it's obvious that you guys won't get back together anymore then find someone else. There's no use hanging onto someone who's done with you; don't torture yourself.