So me and my ex are divorced and have 2 kids. I haven't heard from him or seen him in 2 years. Now all of a sudden he wants to see the kids and be beat of friends.. sharing old jokes and wanting us all to get t together. His girlfriend is even texting me asking if the kids need anything? What the he'll is going on?
Mind you he could have contacted me or the kids at anytime.. now he wants us to be friends.
What the actual fuck?
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Is the girlfriend new? If so she's probably pressuring him to be in kids life and that he should be on good terms with you as their mother and is trying to do the same.
From my experience as a single dad, she could also be looking for an instant family from him, not necessarily be looking for him to take custody, but to feel like she's got kids, at least part time, without having to give birth herself. I know it sounds a bit crazy, but I've had to screen out a few of them in the dating scene.0