Most Helpful Girl
Uhm sorry but I call bs on this. No mental disorder makes you physically do shit unless you have schitzoprehnia (spelling!!) You should take responsibility for your actions. Yeah you can have mental probems but it is definitely wishful thinking to try to use it as a cop out. YOU decided to message a girl. I dont know the context of this situation but I would be far more pissed off at a SO giving me a bs excuse than the act itself. You mess up, you own it. I would definitely leave if my partner claimed he should be excused for cheating due to his "mental disorder".
Most Helpful Guy
Dude get a councilor it helps a lot