I have such a horrible inability to trust. I don't trust the guys I date and it drives me and my lover insane. I hate that I am so insecure and jealous and unable to accept and give love fully.
Most Helpful Guy
Realise that not all people deserve the same level of trust. There are people you can't trust at all, where there are others you can fully trust.
The problem is that you are treating all people as if they all were the same.1
Most Helpful Girl
Take some time off from dating and dedicate most of your spare time and energy towards working you things like your self confidence, finding a hobby you're really passionate about, etc.. Once things like that see a bit of improvement, you'll find it easier to get back into dating without putting all your cards on the table (an analogy I use to describe dating without getting too emotionally invested too soon).1