How can you tell whether an ex wants just sex or genuinely wants you back?

How can you tell whether an ex just wants to use your for sex/ego boost, or if they're actually interested in getting back with you? I hung out with my ex a couple days ago, and we had a 5-hour conversation with some flirty moments, but he didn't make a full move, probably because I seemed unsure. I'm hesitant since I can't work out his intentions. If he wanted me back, he'd just say it explicitly, right? Until he does that, should I assume he's just "testing the waters" to see if I'm up for casual sex? Or am I just assuming the worst?


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  • He probably just wants pussy. If the guy didn't have a replacement set up before the breakup the ex is usually the next best convenient source of that.


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