He broke up with me 5 months ago. Lately he's been calling me about every 3 days. He talks about things in general. The problem is I still love him and I really don't know why he is doing this. He doesn't say anything about getting back together, but he does always end the calls with I love you. I know I could just blow him off but I don't want to. Please help..
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If you are serious about not wanting to talk to him... don't answer the phone.
That's pretty easy. You will not move on and get over him if he keeps trying to hook you back in. He's manipulating you and only going to make you miserable.. Think about why you broke up in the FIRST PLACE? Do you think he's changed? Let him go... unless you want to ride an emotional roller coaster that will end up crashing in the end. You are keeping yourself from meeting guys who will adore you. Guys will lie and say " I LOVE YOU" to get what they want. Judge a guy by his actions.. not his words.. If you really don't want him back ( and I HOPE you don't...) DO NOT ANSWER THAT PHONE. Eventually... he will give up. Hugz.2