Most Helpful Guy
You say that she has been in and out of your life and yet it seems that she's trying to very much be in it right now. Maybe she's trying to make up for some of that lost time and to really be there for you. I'm not saying that you should suddenly welcome it but you might actually consider it. I mean, how much harm can it do?
My mom was never interested in my problems. That's the flip side of the coin. I just did things my own way and fucked up when I fucked up.
Most Helpful Girl
From my own personal experience I wasn't close to my mom, she was always so cold but she passed away in 2010 and I feel like we have edges that never were made better. She was in my life all the time but I feel like she hated me. She was always mad and always gone working mostly because of other issues but I do wish I had more time with her. A girl never stops needing her mom no matter what. I am older now and I wasn't close to my dad either and he put us through hell too but since he's getting older I'm taking this time to make amends since he's changed now from what he used to be on drugs and alcohol. But I know I don't have much time with him so I'm making the best I got because it's too late for me and my mom now